So I feel like there’s first some history here that needs to be explained. This is a girl who I met about a year ago and we became friends very quickly. In fact, we’re pretty much inseparable and hang out almost every day. Continue reading
I need some advice on something that happened earlier tonight. I was out on a quadruple date with my Haitian Sweet heart and all of her friends (I had met them before; we’re all friendly but I’m still the outsider). Continue reading
Around last August, I met this girl. I had a class with her and figured I should be friendly and initiate some fun conversations. This friendship steadily progressed through the year as we found we had more and more in common. I knew she was in a relationship at the time (I’m friends with the guy), but it didn’t matter to me because I wasn’t romantically interested in her.
This friendship began to progress much more rapidly. We saw each other more often and began to spend more time just the two of us together. For the record, everybody thought I had feelings for her when I legitimately didn’t. Well, one day, something happens and I get jealous. I realize that I do like her, and that is what caused my jealousy.
Not wanting to stir any drama (since we are in the same general group of friends), I decide to suppress it, to sweep it under the rug. Well, some subtle actions of mine lead her to ask me if I had feelings for her, to which I reply “we can’t have this conversation”.
Yesterday, she told me that she has had feelings for me since the beginning of summer. I don’t know what to do, I can’t wrap my head around the fact that she can like two guys simultaneously. She feels guilty because we have feelings for each other, and yet she cannot do anything about it…I hope I was coherent, this situation just boggles my mind.