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First Time

Rakim — Fri, 20 Jul 2012 06:21:24 +0000

I had sex for the first time last week, and then again about 45 minutes later, and everything seemed great. No regrets, it was better than I could have asked for. The next night we got into things again, and after a few times trying to get in (once successful but I slipped out) I was getting frustrated and she was not being very helpful. Eventually it killed the mood, and I lost my erection. I could have handled it better, and just continued with other shit but I was overwhelmed with the ideas of what just happened. I told her I was nervous and embarrassed (she has a history with guys who had a ton of ED problems) and that I was afraid that I would just be like them. She comforted me, told me it was okay, all that. I felt, and still feel absolutely horrible.

I obviously understand performance anxiety is common, and I can’t let one time effect me (especially after two fantastic times), but I can’t get it out of my head. She’s told me her sex drive is very high, and I really want to be able to say the same – but I went from excited to worried and afraid. I don’t know how to relax my mind, as I always over analyze everything.

What should I do to reincrease my sex drive and relieve the anxiety surrounding it now? I’m fairly sure everything’s alright physically, and it’s purely psychological, because a few weeks ago my sex drive was absolutely insane (of course it calms down as soon as I actually have sex) and I would be able to masturbate quite frequently, now i’m just not in the mood to anymore, though I stopped about a week before this happened.

Role Model

Rakim — Mon, 04 Jul 2011 22:37:47 +0000

How to be a Father, and not a baby daddy.

You don’t need a lot of money to be in your kid’s life. You can make the most of it. Today, I took my two daughters to a church picnic. You should of see the smiles on their faces. The were having a great time. Today, in their eyes I was superdad. It’s a shame that you see a lot of brothers are not stepping up to the plates.

Ounce you have a kid, you have to put your big pants on. Be a father, love your child. My two girls are my world. Every chance that I have, I tell them how much that I love them.

For those of you that have baby mamas, just because you are not with her, the kids do not have to suffer. Some of you act like, when you don’t support your kid is like you are hurting the baby mama. You are only hurting the kid. I know their are some trifling women out there. That’s why you should wrap it up every time. Know who you are sleeping with. One bad decision can hunt you for the rest of your life.

No more leaders in the Black Community

Rakim — Sat, 25 Jun 2011 03:53:52 +0000

What do you call this?

Is this it? If it is, please tell me so I can throw the towels. Where are the leaders? There are so many things wrongs in this picture, I don’t know where to start.

To all the guys that are having little bastards, please be in your lil bastard lives. This picture take us 6000 years back. How can we be a strong proud race with crap like that. What was he trying to accomplish?

Jesus saves us all!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Women are greedy and vain

Rakim — Tue, 21 Jun 2011 15:19:16 +0000

Women are so vain, they only after money. A woman will drop you in a heart beat if she found someone with more money.

Women are more selfish than men and more likely to bitch about their friends behind their backs, a study today revealed. Bunch of back stabbers and fakes

The survey claims they ignore charity workers at the front door more than men and shun office workmates by making their own tea.

Women are also less likely to return a favour and don’t bother handing money back after seeing someone drop it.